Some of us pass through intense pain in life, which can be seen as suffering or blessing. The pain may be due to the loss of a loved one, some kind of uprootedness, emotional or psychological.

Such moments of pain, if seen from a higher perspective can make us drop all illusions and start searching for the real. But for that, we need to pass through a phase of pain followed by Healing and Let Go. 

Some of us, get scared of pain and in the process, distract ourselves in more and more work, and close ourselves to the world by covering the wound with the hard rock. The wound doesn't heal but such people ensure that there are no more wounds.

But the pain is given to us to become soft, to be more empathetic, to love more intensely.

It is an opportunity to start connecting to our deeper selves.